Counted Breath
Set yourself up in a comfortable position: seated or reclined. As with the breath awareness exercise it is useful to be in a quiet place free of distractions.
Bringing awareness to the breath notice the texture of the inhale, of the exhale. Is your breath fast, slow, jagged, through the nose or mouth. Is the chest moving or still. If it feels right bring one hand to the chest and one to the stomach. Feel where the body moves with the breath.
Now is when we try a bit of control. Without force see if you can expand the belly on the inhale, letting it soften in on the exhale holding the chest still. Know that the chest will not be perfectly still aim to have less movement there than in the belly. Can you deepen the inhale by expanding the belly out further? How about deepening the exhale by actively pulling the belly button in and up.
Many people find it useful to count out this breath to better regulate. Another option is using a metronome.
To count the breath we generally begin with a 4 count; however if you breath is very tight or you experience chronic stress/anxiety you may need to begin with a shorter count. I have worked with asthma patients where we start with a 2 count. Please choose the count that is right for you for your practice.
With one hand on belly and the other on the chest exhale fully and breathe to the count
Inhale 1, 2, 3, 4
Exhale 4, 3, 2, 1
If this is comfortable add a count
Inhale 1, 2, 3, 4, 5
Exhale 5, 4, 3, 2, 1
If your goal is to deepen and lengthen your breath keep adding counts until you get to your edge as long as you can keep the breath smooth.